I have always known that I was a natural writer. I never imagined in my wildest dreams that I would be writing about sex because, where I am from, women just do not do that. I was told that a lady never spoke of herself or anyone else in a sexual manner. I believed this for a long time until I found myself horny and wanting to explore my own sexuality and pleasures and figure out how to be sensual and love myself. I went online to sex video sites to master masturbation and learn new sex positions. I also began to take “private time” just for me to figure out what I liked and how I wanted to be touched. After all, how could I expect someone else to please me if I did not know what I liked? Through this exploration I have found tips and tricks that are satisfying to me, and I have learned tips and tricks to please others.